It Won’t Look the Way We Think

I have preconceived notions of what my life will look like and how I will get my needs met. What I’m finding out though is the universe is so much bigger and broader and takes care of me in ways I didn’t think it would. For instance, this week I’ve been sick. As in so sick I didn’t leave the house for three days and mainlined tea like it was my job. I had this idea the only people who would take care of me when I’m sick are my mom and my boyfriend. Well, my mom lives in Seattle and my boyfriend is nonexistent, so I resigned myself to being really pathetic on the couch. Instead, however, my good friend come over and made me dinner and tea. How sweet is that?


What I found really touching is my needs are getting met, just not how I thought they would. It reminds me of one of my favorite movies Under the Tuscan Sun. At the beginning of the movie Diane Lane’s character says she wants a family in her house, and a wedding, and someone to cook for. In the end, it’s pointed out to her there is a family in her house, and she did host a wedding, and there were plenty of people to cook for – just not a significant other. The family was her best friend and her best friend’s baby, the wedding was for a neighbor, and the people to cook for were the contractors on her house. But it still all happened. All her needs and desires were fulfilled. That’s what’s going on with me these days. I don’t have a significant other but that doesn’t mean my life is limited because of it. I have friends making me dinner, a community to support me, and a family to lean on. I’m getting what I want, just not the way I thought I would.


I guess this post is about how my view is limited, how I can get tunnel vision, but how the universe gets to see everything. How my higher power says, “I will give you everything you want and more, but it’s going to come out of left field.” Because I didn’t expect these things. I didn’t expect anyone would voluntarily make me dinner while being sick because that seems like a contractual obligation or something that goes along with being my boyfriend. How lovely though that there are people in my life who are willing to do that. I am one lucky girl.


This post is also an effort for me to commit to letting the universe work its magic and not get caught up in the “how.” Doreen Virtue had a great quote where she said we want to hand life a script and quibble about what’s on page 42. I don’t want to quibble about page 42 anymore. I would rather say, “Hey God, here’s what I want, here are my needs and desires, I know they’ll be fulfilled, and I look forward to seeing how you make it happen.” Because in the end it most likely won’t look how I think it will.


I dream of a world where we’re open to all possibilities. A world where we understand our needs and desires get met in interesting and unique ways. A world where we don’t hand the universe a script because we realize it’s more like improv – there are certain parameters but for the most part stuff gets made up on the fly. I dream of a world we rest easy knowing we’ll get exactly what we need. and most of what we want as long as we’re open to whatever form that will take.


Another world is not only possible, it’s probable.

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4 comments… add one
  • Vimukta Jan 12, 2012, 7:01 am

    Namaskar Radha,
    Nice experience. I had a similar experience when I was a new Dada. (now ex) I had gone to RDS at the Verona, Italy Master Unit, and on the first day of the RDS i got hit by really bad hay fever, so bad that within hours I was bed ridden. I was bed ridden for the whole week I was there, no chance to attend any of the RDS, my face all swollen, eyes almost shut, bad. But the beauty 🙂 of my miserable condition was all the Dadas and Didis slowly trickling in all week bringing me medicine, food, their company and well wishes, for that week I felt so loved. So loved that I really appreciated my misery, lol. Ok, I'm inspired to watch that movie you mentioned.

    • Rebekah Jan 13, 2012, 6:19 am

      Thank you Vimukta! I enjoyed your story as well. It was also probably a good way to meet the acaryas individually. =)

  • vimukta Jan 13, 2012, 6:28 am

    It was, and it helped me feel more connected with my new coworkers and new family members.

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