Help is Provided

I have some news. I’m moving! Not just talking about it, but actually moving at the end of this month. (Yay!) Moving is one of the most stressful things a person can experience, right under death of a loved one and a divorce, apparently. Needless to say, I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed because on top of my already super-busy life, I have to add packing to the mix. One of the most beautiful, miraculous things coming out of this is people are offering to help me.

People are coming out of the woodwork to offer help moving or driving or picking up boxes. It’s been amazing because I often don’t know who to ask or even what to ask much of the time. To have someone say to me, “Oh, you can forward Craigslist ads of scooters to me to help you figure out what to buy,” is such a relief. To have someone say, “I’ll help you bring a load of stuff to your new place,” makes me want to weep with gratitude.


When I saw this picture I couldn’t resist using it. How cute is this?!?

I’m a very independent person. I like to do things by myself and I pride myself on being able to accomplish things on my own. When people want to help me it’s almost shocking because it’s a reminder I’m not alone, I’m not an island, I exist in a community, and furthermore, people want to help me.

That’s hard for me to remember because my first reaction is often, “I need to take care of this myself,” or “I need to figure this out.” I forget I’m not supposed to have all the answers and be a completely autonomous being. Other people have skills and assets I do not and that’s why I ask for help! There’s something particularly sweet though about not even asking and instead people offering. It feels like an extra special gift that someone wants to show up in my life in that way. It’s touching.

This is a rambly post but that’s because I’m super tired. Mostly, I want to express my gratitude for the people in my life who are offering to help me, for showing up in that way, because it means a lot. This is also my way of saying, offer help when you can because it will probably mean a lot to the person to whom you are offering. It shows a level of care and service that reminds me of the goodness in humanity.

I dream of a world where we offer help when we can. A world where we see all the ways that help is provided to us. A world where we remember we don’t have to do everything by ourselves, but that there are people waiting to help us. A world where we show we care for each other by being helpful.

Another world is not only possible, it’s probable.

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4 comments… add one
  • Erika Jun 9, 2014, 3:20 pm

    Oh man, moving can be so stressful but this is AWESOME! I so related to this in that I really don’t like asking anyone for help ever and I try to do everything on my own. I know I need to get better at it, but this is so cool that you have people OFFERING for you! WOW! This move seems like it’s really in alignment with what you’ve got going on next. Exciting! 🙂

    • Rebekah Jun 13, 2014, 7:55 pm

      Thanks Erika! I sure hope so! And believe, me, it’s taken a long time to get to this point!

  • Feb 1, 2020, 8:25 am

    We should not be afraid to ask for help. A lot of people are still kind and generous to lend some help. The tips in this article would surely be a huge help. Thanks for notching this great article.

    • Rebekah Feb 2, 2020, 7:45 pm

      Thank you!

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